When dating do you know people that lead others on give them hope that they are interested?

by Admin on September 5, 2010

When not interested in another are you honest and upfront so not to waste their time and feelings and your own when dating?

{ 9 comments… read them below or add one }

Angel September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

I’m normally honest but yeah I know ppl who leads others on because they like the attention

Amanda 18 September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

i tell them what i am really feeling….life is to short

Stacey V U September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

some ppl leap ppl on because they don’t know how to reject someone. There’s ppl who just avoid the person completely. I am the type to just let them know.

Thomas September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

yep! most of the time I can figure out that she is not interest in me or not. if nothing is there I just be up front about it and we can go our own way.

skyblue September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

When I meet a man I take my time to get to know him before I start dating him. I am not a fake person so I can not go on a date with a man that I am not truely into. 99% of the time I can tell within the first 3 months of just taking to them over the phone that I am not interested in them. I think most people date for fun (like its a hobby) or because they don’t know what they want and are searching for it, thus they lead people on and don’t even realize it. To me, I think dating should be done when 2 people share a mutual interest in each other and want to see if they want to take their relationship to the next level.

finn mchuil September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

I always try to be for a few reasons. I seem to experience this a lot which is strange because I find it easier to see when it involves others. Just seems to be when it happens to me I`m the last one to know, again. It has brought me to a place where4e I`m very cautious with my heart.

Old School September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

if I’m usually alone for the first time and nothing happens, then I move on. I’m talking about obvious displays of affection. I believe all girls will let a guy know that they like him, even the shy ones.

They give clues.

They laugh at your jokes, even the stupid ones. They play with their hair. They bite their lip. They look for excuses to sit close.

If a girl wants to be friends, the girl doesn’t like me per say, they like the attention. They like being able to be around me without the tension (on their part).

Kent C September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

Pretty much so. I never lie. Sometimes it hurts to be honest all the time but it’s best in the long run. If you tell the truth you never have to worry about what lie you told to whom. Truth never changes.

Yes I’m up front and I don’t waste their time. I used to get hit on a lot. Too many women would flirt with me but my problem was I don’t take hints that easily. I’ve been bashed because girls hit on me and I never got it but then at the time, I was recovering from an ex that cheated on me and could have cared less if a girl found me to be handsome.

maddy September 5, 2010 at 12:29 am

so far as boys r concerned they want to keep all fishes in their pocket
wen u date u get to know your prospects in the relation..

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