Fifi S asked:
We met on the site a year ago which is like a dating/friends version of myspace but NOT myspace.
Believe me I trust him completely I know he wouldnt cheat on me. He says hes still on it just for friends which I know if he talks to other girls on it its just for online chat things. Plus he has in a relationship as his status on it. Again I trust him but I just want to see others opinions on this.
We met on the site a year ago which is like a dating/friends version of myspace but NOT myspace.
Believe me I trust him completely I know he wouldnt cheat on me. He says hes still on it just for friends which I know if he talks to other girls on it its just for online chat things. Plus he has in a relationship as his status on it. Again I trust him but I just want to see others opinions on this.
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well it just depends. I mean really he doesnt really have to be on a dating/friends version of myspace to chat to people. If he wants to chat with people there are many other places where he can make friends besides dating websites. Its not really good for him to be talking to girls though i mean think just wonder if he got tired of you or something he could start using them as a threat to leave you or something like that. Its just not healthy for a relationship for a guy to be talking to other girls like that. I mean its okay to have like friends that are girls but only if you know the girl and he isn’t like going places with just her and him. Just follow your heart if you don’t like him being on there just tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable i mean not like you don’t trust him but you don’t trust other girls and you just don’t want to lose him to somebody else. Hope this helps.
You say you trust him completely and you know he wouldn’t cheat on you, but that can’t be true because if it were you wouldn’t have these questions in your mind.
You have to decide if you’re going to trust him or not. What I’ve learned is it isn’t worth it for me to stress myself out about what someone may or may not be doing. At the same time I don’t go looking for reasons to get myself in a tizzy. What I’m saying is if you don’t trust him, there is no relationship.
So disregard all the questions about him being on the site and his status and who he’s chatting with and just ask yourself if you trust him. If you trust him, let it go. If you don’t you need to reconsider if this is the best relationship for you.