Real Kelly Bundy asked:
I’m dating this stripper coz the Bible teaches us to love thy neighbor. But it hurts to see her in the strip club and then she goes off with different men into the vip room. They also text her at odds hours of the night and she leaves. She is on drugs and I think she even works as an escort on the side. She is slowly luring me into her word of sin. How can I convert her back to the way of Christ?
I’m dating this stripper coz the Bible teaches us to love thy neighbor. But it hurts to see her in the strip club and then she goes off with different men into the vip room. They also text her at odds hours of the night and she leaves. She is on drugs and I think she even works as an escort on the side. She is slowly luring me into her word of sin. How can I convert her back to the way of Christ?
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Back to the way of Christ? How do you know she was ever walking with Christ? Maybe she just doesn’t want it. That song by Three-Six Mafia, “Don’t Save Her”…….She don’t wanna be saved brother.
Hey man I know how you feel. I’ve dated someone for 3+ years hoping she would come to Christ but never did. I learned that I cannot bring her to Christ. That’s only in God’s power and not yours. The Bible says all we can do is plant the seed. It’s hard but you’re going to have to let her go especially if your starting to get sucked into her world. You just become a hypocrite to your faith then and that shows nothing of Christ. I’ll be praying for you and your situation.
No one can control others or tell ppl what to do. Most kids rebel when their parents are strict and give them exact rules to live by.
Yes, love thy neighbor, but love them for who they are. Trying to change someone is not an act of love and makes it obvious that you do not like them the way they are.
she needs to change on her own when she is ready.
Don’t date her.
If you want to help her, tell her that you don’t want her over when she is on a drugs, or to leave and meet up with customers when she is hanging out with you.