I’m almost 21 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. The most dominant explanation is that I’m too shy to even ask a girl out. And as a result, I’ve simply lost the motivation to consider dating, but still retaining the interest in girls.
Tips on online dating.
I’m almost 21 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. The most dominant explanation is that I’m too shy to even ask a girl out. And as a result, I’ve simply lost the motivation to consider dating, but still retaining the interest in girls.
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I don’t think motivation is the problem..you’re just nervous about it. Try starting out as friends with someone.
don’t be shy. go out and talk to girls. cuz if you don’t you always wonder what if.
Dont worry so much about it your 21 not 71. The best way to motivate is to do things that make you feel more confident. Asking someone out isn’t easy but understand that this sort of thing can happen to anyone.
The worst thing the girl can say is no, and after that atleast you wont be wondering what would have happened
Walk up to the girl that you have the best connection with(the one that you make laugh all the time) if she is single say"Excuse me miss, but would you like to partake in a wonderful time at the ________.". Put a place that you think she will like and that you feel ok with in the blank say it with confidence and gusto, She WILL be flattered and she may even say yes. You’re in your prime it never to late so go get em’ tiger.
Hmm…well you sound like a very intelligent well spoken individual, so PLEASE don’t let fear stand in the way. The world is much in need of great guys who know how to articulate their thoughts, and women with LOVE you for that.
Start with online dating, get a feel for what’s out there and who’s interested. Then chat on the phone with a few girls at least once, and then take the plunge and MEET them.
Success is moving from failure to failure without any loss of enthusiasm. So take that sharp sense of self and go get ‘em!
Cheers,
Lana.
don’t be like that. you have many ways to ask a girl for a date. you can send sms o just call. o you can ask help from your friend to company you. as you almost 21,be the man not be the boy. start now o you will not start forever.