Comments on: How come before you date someone, you talk non-stop but once you start dating you talk less?

By: winter_suicide

winter_suicide — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 10:34:39 +0000

Hey all,
I was SO sick of being alone. I wanted a nice boyfriend, but my big problem is that I just have average looks. I tried MANY different sites. Some had fake profiles. You can always tell because the girl (or guy) looks EXTREMELY attractive. Listen, if they look like that, I guarantee you they’re not gonna be on a dating site. I could go on, but the website that got me the best luck was. Plus it’s free for several days, so you can try it for yourself. Go ahead and have some fun with it!
Cecelia

By: Nat/June

Nat/June — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 10:55:49 +0000

This doesn’t necessarily mean that you two know all there is to know about each other or that the spark is gone, it probably just means that you two have gotten past the preliminary stage of getting to know the basic things about each other. If this bothers you, it wouldn’t be a bad thing to try to talk to him about it, especially if he is someone you really like and can see yourself with him long term.

By: Diva_Gigi

Diva_Gigi — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 02:18:01 +0000

Think about it u guys always talked before you were dating thats how all relationships are. You start talking less because you guys are together and u dont have to fight to get eachothers luv anymore. You know? But it is good to still talk becuz thats always important in a relationship. U say u guys kind of dont talk alot anymore? Try to make conversation when you guys are togther.
For example!

“Hey sweety! How are you today?”

“How did you sleep?”

“So what did you do yesterday?”
or
“Do you have any funny jokes? I feel like laughing.”

Im sure if you try to start a conversation he will know that you still want to talk as much as you did before. I hope this works

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!

By: smiley

smiley — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 02:05:28 +0000

yeah i guess you got it good because i do that to my boyfriend because he was probley so wanting to get with you that when he did it all switched..
this isnt as bad as you may think i mean come on give him something to beg for
and what you could do is not be so availble to him

By: rebeli812

rebeli812 — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 12:56:17 +0000

theres nothing left to talk about

By: Miss S

Miss S — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 15:26:31 +0000

Now he knows youre his, he doesnt have to fight as much. He wanted to get your attention so much at the beginning, now its just relaxed. its why people cheat i think because that excitement is gone. Don’t worry couples dont talk 24/7 all the time. Just continue talking as much as you can, continue doing things with him. If it still doesnt work, well then you need to think about why youre with him.