Serious question. I have four kids and want to resume dating. I was divorced, tried dating in the last four years, involved them and do not like the results. I’d like to know how the rest of you date with children. Ideally, I’d like the kids to never get involved at all, but guys seem to think you are hiding something if you don’t introduce them to your brood.
! My ex and I have a very mature relationship and balance caring for the children well. How can I refuse to let my kids meet my dates without insulting them?
How can I shelter my kids from my dating life?
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When my mother got back into dating, she just told the guys that she didn’t want to get my little brother involved unless it became something more serious. Kids get attached easily, and sometimes they sabatoge the whole thing. Try telling the guys that you date that right now that you are dating for you, to have a nice time and be able to have a new relationship. It’s your time away from the kids, and he shouldn’t demand to meet them unless he’s prepared and so are you. And so are the kids.
Good luck!