Christians, do you honestly not have sex while dating someone?
by Admin on April 8, 2008
maryellen asked: I’m not talking about born-again Christians that had sex previously before becoming a Christian.
How many of you Christians date people and honestly do not have sex?
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I didn’t have sex.
If I was single again, I would be even more determined not to do so, nor even do deep or french kissing.
Arousing the feelings in the sex drive give you the impression you are in love, especially for women.
If the sex is not so great, you might break up, if good you might rush into marriage. Those things don’t mean you will have a successful marriage.
Marriage takes work and even the sex life takes discussion.
While dating, there are many things that need to be talked about including sex, one’s health condition, who is going to work, where you will live, whether you will have children, etc.
Experimenting with sex is not necessary nor useful. Nor is living together. If you are looking for the best sex dating site, check out this site:
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Best Wishes,
COUNTER QUESTION HOW MANY CHRISTIAN VIRGIN MALES OR FEMALES WOULD YOU FIND.. IF YOU WERE TO DO RESEARCH..??
IN MY OPINION 0.1% I DON’T KNOW WHATS YOURS..
Honestly.
Obedience to God comes first, so no sex before marriage no matter what.
its just sad isnt it? and the worst thing is they look down on people who do! marrying someone youve not lived/slept with is ridiculous and the only reason any of them last is because half of the nutters think divorce will get them sent to hell
Depends upon the person. Some Christians break the rules and have sex before marriage because they want to or are lustial in the mind.
Overall though the Christian religion says that we should not have sexual intercourse before we’re married. This rule was stated to us because God wanted to protect us from the dangers of sex (STDs, Pregnancy, etc.) and so that we could share it with the one person we are fully committed to and nobody else.
Hope this helps.
“Not having sex” isn’t the problem…
It is that they are “Not having sex” not out of self respect and safety, but because of what their magic sky daddy wants of them… Or, what they THINK that their invisible, magic sky daddy wants of them… (Despite all evidence to the contrary in the bible and, specifically, the depravity committed by their own holy class.)
Atheists and non-Christians REALLY need to stop asking the basic “You don’t have sex?” and ask “WHY do you not have sex and, if it is based on what you think your god wants, do you not follow his other rules?”
I don’t have ‘vanilla’ sex any more… I haven’t had “Man and woman in missionary position” since 2003… But I abstain for MYSELF, not because I am terrified of what some invisible evil man in the sky wants of me.
I know a few non born-again christians and yes, unlike what some may say, they do
Not only does the Bible not condemn sex before marriage it doesn’t give us a description of what marriage is. It does give us an example of where taking the bride into the mothers tent was considered adequate ceremony.
Marriage is purposefully designed to bankrupt all but bureaucrats and women and destroy the moral fibre of the family. The only thing we can be certain of is that marriage is not this hell religions have created totally without Gods input.
We are told the marriage bed is to be undefiled. We are not told specifically what defiles it. We are told that fornication is a sin and from the dictionary definition must assume that Jesus was speaking of having sex with someone other then your wives. This much we know. The rest is made up perverted perveyors of lies.