Breaking the classmate barrier into the friends then dating?

by Admin on March 7, 2008

friends dating
dosankocooking asked:


I’m quite at loss what to do here. For example in one of my particular class I have a female classmate who I’m interested in. Of course at first we talk about things regarding class but after those nice little academic small chats how do you become close friends? Should I just pop somnething out of the blue that is unrelated to academics? How should I ask her number or let’s say ask her to hang out?

I’m having bit of a trouble breaking the acquaintance->friends wall.

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

jimmie d monie March 7, 2008 at 5:46 pm

Dude its cool just act yourself and start to tell her about you. if that doesnt work ask her to a movie girls like to go to movies

maya March 8, 2008 at 10:01 pm

Yeah just break that wall asking her how her day was! The small chit chats don’t have to be everything academic-related.
Ask her if it’s alright to hang out with her after class for coffee or just to kill time!
Something like that! As long as you’re honest the girl won’t mind!

Goodluck! ^__^

Miss Vivian Cullen March 11, 2008 at 10:11 am

You should find something you both like and talk about it over lunch then when you find something going on with it and ask her if she want to go, like if its a band see if you can get tickets or something.
Also if your school has dances ask her two one well your talking about something completely different just out of the blue and hope she will say yes you don’t have to wait to see if she likes you
or you can just go ask one of her friends if she likes you and if she does ask her out! Take this from a girl it will probably work i hope or else im stupid and im not!

craigROH March 14, 2008 at 11:14 am

I’m quite at loss what to do here. For example in one of my particular class I have a female classmate who I’m interested in: what do u like about her, what interests u?

Of course at first we talk about things regarding class but after those nice little academic small chats how do you become close friends? she may be just being friendly dude, if a girl talks to u it doesnt mean they fancy u, it may mean that they are discussing class work which is normal, chemistry is everything, u cant force chemistry.

Should I just pop somnething out of the blue that is unrelated to academics? just talk to her normally about hows her day been and so on.

How should I ask her number or let’s say ask her to hang out? my advise is dont man u dont know that she exactly likes u, just talk to her genuinly and dont even think about relationships until there is chemistry between u and another girl, i personally dont think she is the one for u dude or u would have clicked by now.

dude sometimes girls are just meant to be friends and i believe from what u told me that she is just interested in friends, i mean u guys only talk about chemistry work and nothing more, its cool tho dude but shes not the one, ull find the one tho.

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